The latest online trend on the popular app TikTok is inspired by the term demure, which spread like wildfire seemingly overnight. From Instagram captions to witty group chat responses, demure is everywhere. This term and trend even have some people looking up the meaning of the word and questioning the prowess of their vocabulary.

TikTok is known to have a lasting impact on popular culture, but this trend seems to be taking the cake. The most recent rendition of the term has been related to travel behavior. Here is how to embody the trend on your next trip to a charming getaway.

Tips For Having A Demure Fall Vacation

@joolieannie #fyp #demure ♬ original sound – Jools Lebron

To encompass demure energy is to be mindful, classy, respectful, and very “sweetsy.” At least that is what the trend creator says to her audience. Jools Lebron (@joolieannie) is a Chicago-based TikTok creator who recently blew up online for her use of the term. Since then, the word demure has become a popular term used in countless situations.

Travelers are even getting inspired by the term and applying it to their fall adventures. Jools is sharing her top tips for being demure while traveling since the viral video has led to more travel opportunities. Fall is already a season that is admired for its serenity. It is an ideal time to enjoy nature and connect with oneself.

This new trend is showing people how they can expand their vocabulary and extend kindness to other travelers. People have even comically referred to “hot girl summer” as a thing of the past as they enter “demure fall” and enjoy demure fall vacations.

@joolieannie #fyp #demure ♬ original sound – Jools Lebron

What Is Being Demure During Travel?

Jools touches on specific ways she can be “mindful, classy, respectful, and very sweetsy” during a recent trip. Travelers looking for guidance as they go abroad can use this word in many different ways in their lives. There are a few ways to start a demure fall vacation, even before or during travel. For one, a basic way to be demure and mindful is to send the deposit or funds on time for the group trip. Helping the trip make it out of the group chat is very demure. Another way is to be mindful of personal space. Hogging the leg or arm room on the plane or while on an airport shuttle is not demure or sweetsy. 

While there are a great many ways to live the demure and avid traveler lifestyle at the same time, how to do that depends on the person. A sure-fire way to pinpoint ways to be demure is to avoid doing the things that other people do to annoy you while you are traveling. It’s all about putting in a little effort so that other travelers around you can also do their best to remain respectful.